Reading does not always applied on something written and understanding does not always applied on something told. When you know how to confront with people, then you should understand them easily throughout the conversations, discussion and what not. Don't just think that you are right all the time and try to be in that person's shoes. Life isn't easy for those who think it's not and it's easy for those who think it is...but don't make it worse by all kinds of pressure. We've heard about "don't judge a book by its cover" and people should know how to apply it. People shouldn't be judged and shouldn't be judging either. Hatred will just come in between when things happen the way they shouldn't. My words are such a mess...and it represents my condition. I think.
Understand the untold..read the unwritten.